I’m here to walk alongside you as you move through the stress, overwhelm, and emotional exhaustion of your fertility journey. Together, we’ll work towards a place of peace and balance.

You don’t have to carry this alone—I’m with you every step of the way, offering the support and understanding you need to heal and move forward.

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Here’s The Problem

It’s hard enough as it is.

You’ve probably tried everything from Goggling everything and anything to do with infertility, online meditation courses, breathwork workshops, Facebook support groups, Online and and in-person support groups but nothing seems to be working for you. Most of these are are all helpful, but they don’t go past surface level feelings and emotions that YOU are going through on your unique journey of multiple cycles, losses and multiple set backs.

It’s almost impossible to teach yourself how to learn to let go of the things you cannot control or how to shift your thoughts from ones that are unkind and helpful to ones filled with self-compassion and support.

After 4 long years of IVF treatment, multiple cycles, multiple transfers, major surgery and so many complications along the way…I truly understand how you feel. 

Also, with my degree in Neuroscience and over 500+ hours of coaching training, I’m an experienced professional who’s equipped to help you through this traumatic time. 

I’ve felt everything you have felt… the disappointment and heartache from failed cycles, the physical pain from needles, surgery and the impact of hormones on your mood and physical suffering. The worst part… the emotional exhaustion from your looping and overwhelming thoughts such as ‘Did I do enough’, ‘I wish I started treatment earlier’, and ‘I’m scared of what my future will look like’?

I want you to feel supported and empowered with simple yet highly effective tools and strategies so that you can move forward in your fertility journey and be in the best place possible mentally, emotionally and physically to conceive.

You don’t have to do it all by yourself, feeling alone, overwhelmed and exhausted.

Imagine IF

  • You had someone who 100% understood the overwhelm, frustration, and uncertainty because she had been through it herself for many years. 

  • You had tools and strategies that you can use to help you manage the heartache and devastation when a cycle/transfer fails and you were able to let go and trust that you will be OK.

  • You transformed from a dark place of feeling hopeless and deflated constantly muttering, "this will never work," or "I can't keep this up," to developing a new sense of self-belief.

  • With the guidance of a certified fertility coach, you were taught invaluable tools to reduce anxiety, fear, and silence doubt, allowing you to walk your fertility journey with resilience and hope for your future self and future life.

  • You were able to learn how to life live in the present and book time off, go away and do things on your bucket list without always having to pause, think or check the calendar and stop yourself.

  • You were able to trust your body,  embrace your pregnancy and connect emotionally, physically and spiritually with your baby in your pregnancy after years and years of uncertainty, anxiety and exhausting fertility treatment.

  • You transformed from a dark place of feeling hopeless and deflated constantly muttering, "this will never work," or "I can't keep this up," to developing a new sense of self-belief.

  • Your support system expanded to include a compassionate and knowledgeable fertility coach, offering a safe space to explore your fears and doubts without judgement.

  • In the trenches of your egg freezing journey, you discovered hope and support, taking away the isolating weight of uncertainty and fear about your future. And you were left feeling at peace, being able to enjoy life and live in the present.

  • With the guidance of a certified fertility coach, you were taught invaluable tools to reduce anxiety, fear, and silence doubt, allowing you to walk your fertility journey with resilience and hope for your future self and future life.

What Clients Are Saying

Who I Work With

  • Women about to start IVF / IUI treatment

  • Women about to start fertility treatment

  • Women that has had unsuccessful IVF and FET cycles

  • Women that have secondary infertility and are about to start treatment

  • Women that have secondary infertility and have already started treatment

  • Women that have been ‘diagnosed’ with infertility

  • Women that have a partner that has been diagnosed with infertility

  • Women that are pregnant through IVF / IUI

  • Women that are thinking about freezing their eggs (as they haven’t found the right partner yet)

  • Women that are in the process of freezing their eggs (as they haven’t found the right partner yet)

The Fertility Mindset Shift:
12 Weeks to Peace and Balance

  • Step One

    Understand what emotions you are struggling with the most
    Using NLP methodology and tools you will fully understand how to change thoughts, feelings and beliefs that are holding you back from your dreams of becoming a mother. Together, we’ll work on creating a new set of beliefs, thoughts, actions and behaviours so that you have an entirely different perspective on the journey that you are on.

  • Step Two

    Releasing your anxieties and fears to hope and belief and learn to start to let go of what you cannot control.
    Start to manage and be able to shift your own emotions from anxiety and feeling scared to calm and grounded. Using proven to be highly effective visualisation techniques, I will teach you to be more aware of how feelings such as anxiety show up in your physical body and how you can shift your state of mind from feeling anxious to calm so that you can do this whenever you start to feel anxious or out of control.

  • Step Three

    Understand how you want to feel and how you visualise your future life and future self and learn how to get there
    We’ll work on creating goals around how you want to feel during your fertility journey by understanding your deepest desires and dreams for the life you want to live and how you want to feel and I will show you how to get there and what steps to take.
    Learn to be present and happy. We’ll focus on what inspires you and what you can start doing for yourself to help you get to a place where you feel genuinely loved and supported by YOU.

  • Step Four

    Strengthen your relationship with your partner
    Prioritise your relationship and marriage by seeing a different emotional perspective through the eyes of your partner. I teach you how to be more aware of and understand how your partner is feeling and what you can do to help and support each other better so that you are no longer constantly fighting and arguing.

  • Step Five

    Re-Set: Be kinder to yourself during one of the toughest chapters in your life
    Let’s start to see yourself from a different perspective so that you can observe and really see all that you’ve been through and start to see your incredible qualities and achievements again. Start to learn how to shift the unkind words you are telling yourself regularly such as ‘I don’t deserve to be a mother’ to kinder words that acknowledge your strength, your resilience and your bravery. You’ll start to practice and train your brain to use loving, nurturing and encouraging words such as ‘I have done all that I can’, ‘I will be an incredible mother’ and that ‘I will be OK’.

  • Step Six

    Shift: Be present and happy
    Shift your entire perspective and start to learn how to be present how to live a happy life during infertility. We’ll focus on doing things that make you happy, bring you joy and let you feel like you. There’s no question that this journey has changed and shaped you but let this inspire you to live a fulfilled life and feel blessed with the unconditional love and support that you have around you. Learn to stop letting infertility take the joy out of your life and shift your perspective on how you see yourself, your life and what lies ahead for you.

Fertility treatment is more than just the physical treatment and the logistics of scans, injections and test. More and more research is being done to show the psychological, emotional and mental impact on the success and outcomes. Seeking help and support through this journey is brave and courageous and isn’t a sign of weakness.

What Clients Are Saying

What IF

  • You had someone who 100% understood the overwhelm, frustration, and uncertainty because she had been through it herself for many years.  

  • You had tools and strategies that you can use to help you manage the heartache and devastation when a cycle/transfer fails and you were able to let go and trust that you will be OK.

  • You and your partner had a stronger marriage and had more to talk about than your fertility treatments.

  • You felt safe, heard and not judged for feeling resentment or jealousy if a family member or friend just announced their pregnancy. 

  • You were able to plan fertility treatment around your life instead of planning your life around fertility treatments.

  • You knew how to deal with other people’s triggering comments such as, ‘are you going to try for children soon’ without feeling overwhelmed or sad

What you’ll get

  • 12 Weeks of 1:1 coaching

  • 8x total 1:1 calls (60 mins each) via Zoom

  • 1:1 email and Voxer messenger support (Mon-Friday during business hours only)

  • Over 20+hrs of support through calls and Voxer messenger support (based on 1 hour per week of responding to your messages).

  • Weekly check-ins from me via Voxer messenger.

  • 1:1 Sound Bowl Healing Session in Person*

  • Personalised Meditation and Sound Bowl Therapy audio to help you release the emotions and thoughts that are playing heavy on your mind and holding you back.

  • Powerful yet simple and effective proven tools and strategies that you can use to shift your thoughts and perception and learn to change your inner dialogue that will help the way you see everything you see around you, you will feel lighter, have more clarity and see and experience things that you didn’t think were even possible.

  • Feel supported, feel safe and have a compassionate listener and fertility support expert who truly understands you.

  • A non-judgmental place to be open and deeply honest about what you are scared of the most on your fertility journey - no need for pretend smiles and saying that you are ‘OK’ when deep down you are anything but OK.

    *Available to clients in Singapore, an additional 1:1, 60 mins coaching session for all clients living outside Singapore)

How you’ll feel

After working together for 12 weeks, the change you’ll feel will be something that you didn’t expect or never imagined was possible for you. You’ll:

  • Understand visualisation and how it can help you to create empowering thoughts and outcomes for your fertility journey and other areas of your life.

  • Learn tapping (EFT) to release trapped and suppressed emotions and stress to get you to a place of balance, calm and control.

  • Be able to reframe your own limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns, creating a mindset of hope, possibility and resilience.

  • Gain practical tools to manage your emotions, reduce anxiety and uncertainty. Leaving you feeling lighter emotionally and physically.

  • Learn how to give yourself grace, be kinder and compassionate to yourself allowing you to break free from self-criticism, guilt and judgment.

  • Feel resilient and will find inner strength that you never knew existed.

  • Be happy within yourself and find mental and emotional peace.

  • Learn to trust yourself and your body and know that you’ll find joy and happiness no matter what path your journey takes.

  • Build confidence in your decisions and the way you handle whatever comes your way knowing that you will be OK.

  • And so much more!

What Clients Are Saying

  • In short the answer is No.

    But not because I don’t want to, but because I have tried these in the past and one-off sessions do not work. The same applies to shorter sessions.

    My 12 week coaching program: The Mindset Shift - 12 weeks to Happiness and Peace has been careful crafted to go deep into your subconscious thought patterns and beliefs so that you an work on transformation necessary for lasting change. The 12-week coaching program is designed to offer my full support, allowing you to experience real transformation in your mindset, emotional healing and emotional resilience on you fertility journey. The 12-week program is the most effective way to achieve the happiness, peace, balance and self-kindness that you deserve and have been looking for.

  • My Coaching program has been careful tailored and crafted so that you can get the best possible results and transformation.

    It’s not therapy or counselling which is more focussed on past trauma and healing and fixing the underlying cause but it’s about forward looking. It’s about working on where you are now, how you really feel behind the mask of pretend smiles and releasing all the weight that you may have been carrying for some time.

    We work through the deeper layers of frustrations, anger, resentment, feelings of helplessness and exhaustion to get you to a place where you feel happy and at peace.

    If you are ready to make a change in the way you feel on your fertility journey and be in the best place possible mentally and emotionally and aligned with your mind and body, then I would love to support and guide you and be a part of your journey.

  • I totally get, you are spending a lot of money on fertility treatment and everything else that you might be doing to bring a baby home.

    But honestly, this is the best investment you would make. The bespoke coaching program reflects the support, personalised guidance, and transformative results you will experience over the course of the program. The program is designed to provide deep, lasting change that empowers you to walk through not only your fertility journey but beyond in all other areas of your life.

    I understand that the cost is a consideration, this program is an investment in your emotional well-being, mindset, and overall fertility journey. The tools and strategies you’ll learn will not only help you cope with the challenges of infertility but also set you up for long-term resilience happiness, peace and emotional balance which you cannot put a value to. By making this investment, you’re making yourself the number one priority, you’re putting your mental health and emotional healing at the top which is just as important (if not more) then all your medical treatments, blood tests and procedures.

    I do get that it’s not easy for some of you so I do offer a flexible monthly payment plan to make this journey more accessible. The value you’ll receive, in terms of emotional support and personal growth, far outweighs the cost, and I believe it will be a life-changing experience for you.

    I’ve been in your very shoes and I chose to invest in myself with my own fertility coach. It was by far the best decision I ever made. But my personal growth and healing doesn’t stop there, I continue to invest in coaching - both personal and business to keep growing and understanding myself better and how I can overcome beliefs and thoughts that are holding me back.

    If you’re ready to take the next step, embrace change and invest in yourself, I’m here to guide and support you every step of the way and I honestly cannot wait to work with you.

  • Yes, absolutely! You don’t need to be actively going through fertility treatments such as IVF to benefit from the 12-week coaching program.

    The emotional and mental challenges of the journey can affect you at any stage—whether you’re actively trying to conceive, taking a break from treatments, or even processing the emotional aftermath of past cycles not working and feeling a huge sense of loss of hope and belief.

    I always find that most women experience heightened feelings of uncertainty, self-doubt, and overwhelm when they’re not in the midst of active treatments as they have so much time to think and thing. My coaching program is designed to support you wholly as it focuses on helping you build emotional resilience, learn how to be your own supporter and reframe any beliefs that are holding you back, no matter where you are in your fertility journey. You’ll get the clarity and mindset shifts you need to feel empowered and in control, allowing you to move forward with peace and happiness.

    So, whether you’re preparing for future treatments or are in the deep trenches of treatment, the program offers tailored support to help you feel calm and supported every step of the way.

  • Choosing the right support during your fertility journey is incredibly important, and I understand how confusing and overwhelming it can be to find someone who truly understands you. Here’s are some reasons why working with me could be the right choice for you:

    1. I’ve been where you are.
      I know what it feels like to struggle with fertility and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with it. After going through my own IVF journey, I knew the missing piece for me was my thoughts. I worked hard on shifting my mindset away from fear and doubt towards peace, inner calm, and happiness. I used these same strategies, including NLP, Reiki (energy healing) and mindset shifts, to manifest a healthy pregnancy at 41 and give birth to a healthy baby boy at 42. I’m not just a coach; I’m someone who has walked the path you're on and knows how to help you get through it. And I am also someone who practices what I preach, I invested in a fertility coach and a life coach/counsellor that helped me and my husband through some of our darkest and scariest moments.

    2. I focus on long-term transformation.
      My 12-week program is designed to help you shift your mindset, build self-confidence, and nurture emotional resilience. Unlike quick Band Aid fixes, or one-off sessions that offer temporary relief, the tools and techniques I teach will create lasting change. You’ll get the clarity, confidence, and self-kindness needed to feel in control of your journey, no matter what path you take.

    3. I specialise in emotional support for fertility challenges.
      I deeply understand the emotional toll infertility can take on you. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to help you manage anxiety, fear, and self-doubt, while guiding you to develop healthier coping strategies. You’ll learn to break free from limiting beliefs and conscious and subconscious negative thought patterns that are holding you back, so you can move forward with happiness and peace.

    4. A personalised, compassionate approach.
      My coaching is tailored to your unique needs and struggles. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. Together, we’ll explore your specific emotional needs and design a plan that helps you feel empowered. You won’t just receive advice (infact I hardly ever offer advice!) you’ll be supported every step of the way in a way that honors your personal experience and healing process. I also listen to what you want to work through and where you want to get to (vs where I think you need to get to).

    5. I provide proven tools and strategies (backed by science and research)
      Using NLP techniques, Reiki healing, and mindset work, I provide tools that have helped both myself and my clients overcome emotional barriers, manage stress, and move through their fertility journey with more peace and confidence. These tools are practical and actionable, designed to bring about real, lasting results.

    6. I’ve done 400+ hours of hours of training and I am a Certified and Accredited Coach Life Coach (ICI) and Master Practitioner of NLP recognised by the American Board of NLP (not to mention a BSc. in Neuroscience)

      I am committed to being the best coach that I can be for and so I have put in the hundreds of hours of practical, class-rooms based learning, training and coaching. I am not into taking shortcuts or signing up to ‘coaching’ courses that are not regulated or accredited because not only would I be doing a disservice to you, but to myself also. And this is truly important to me as it aligns with my core values of transparency and authenticity. But it also shows my dedication to what I do.

    Choosing to work with me means choosing to invest in yourself—your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. You deserve to feel supported and empowered, and I’m here to help you create a future filled with self-kindness, peace and happiness. I am super excited to work with you.

  • Once payments are made, there are no refunds offered due to the nature of the tailored coaching program. I am happy to talk through anything that worries you and reassure you that I am here to support you 1000%. My commitment is to you and changing the way you feel on this journey and at the same time optimising your outcomes.

FAQS

I have another question? If there is anything else that you’ve thought of that’s not listed above, please send me an email and I’ll come back to you as soon as possible. You can email me at: tina@tinafertilitycoach.com andI

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Pricing

$1,990 USD Full Payment

$720 USD x3 Monthly payments

The steps to apply are:

  1. Fill out the ‘Apply to work with me’ application form.

  2. Book a connection call. You will be directed to book a call on the last page once you have completed the application form.

Let's talk about how you are feeling now and what you need and how I can support you in a way that helps you.

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Email: Tina@tinafertilitycoach.com
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